4 Reasons Why You Need To Overcome The Fear Of Rejection In Your Social Life - CONFIDENCE UNIVERSE


Saturday, April 4, 2020

4 Reasons Why You Need To Overcome The Fear Of Rejection In Your Social Life

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Are you constantly battling with anxiety and depression in your life? do you feel nervous around strangers? do you catch a blank mind, or get short of words in a conversation with a stranger? do you avoid social gatherings, just to avoid having awkward moments that turn off women in your life?

I am pretty sure that each one of us has found him/herself in a similar situation at some point in our lives. As kids, we were generally timid, especially around strangers. But as we grew older, most of us a breakout from our shells, to explore the world before us, while a few of us never get to break out from the timid zone.

There are several factors that can lead to shyness, some are; 

Lack of social skills: When a person lacks the right social skills required to interact with society, they might become reserved around others, mainly because they don't know what to say, when to say it, or how to start a conversation. 

Fear of people: Maybe you had a bad past, or a dysfunctional family that led to several issues such as fear of intimacy or fear of being around people, especially those with whom you have little to no acquaintance. 

Inferiority complex: The feeling of being inferior to others could definitely cause shyness. If a person felt worthless he would be reluctant to express him/herself and to interact with people around them.

Self-image disorder: Self inhibiting thoughts can lead to shyness. because self-image plays a big role in your self-esteem and self-actualization, since self-image issues can lead to self-inhibition around others, which leads to shyness

Perfectionism: A perfectionist refers to someone who refuses to accept any standards short of perfection. Being a perfectionist can lead to shyness because If a person wanted to say and/or do everything perfectly then they might be seen as weird, and end up speaking much less than normal

Lack of self-confidence: Call it Courage, call it balls, stones or whatever, they all mean the same thing. Without confidence, you'll never overcome the fear to walk up to someone and engage in a conversation with them. Lack of self-confidence can trigger the brain to try to protect the person by making him/her shy. 

We've seen the causes of shyness/fear in individuals, but the question you're probably asking yourself right now is HOW DO I OVERCOME SHYNESS. Well at the end of this post, I talk about how you can achieve that. So read closely so you don't miss it.

But, why is it necessary to overcome shyness in your social life? Well, there are lots of importance why you need to overcome the fear of rejection in your social life. 
Generally, people with high self-esteem are very confident in their life. And so one step to achieving self-esteem and/or self-actualization in your dating life is by getting rid of the fear of communication -check out our previous post on Why communication is so important in a relationship

Below, we're gonna discuss 5 important reasons why you need to overcome the fear of rejection, in order to transform your dating life. So let's quickly dive into our subject of matter.

Reason #1 You get to approach more women

The average looking guy who's bold and socially interactive simply has more potential partners, than a good looking guy who is timid. If you can't approach a lady in the first place, then how do you expect to make your intentions known. 

The problem most timid good looking guys face is that they tend to be in relationships with women they had no desire for. Because they don't actually approach women, they tend to settle for the available, because the desired isn't available. And so as the years past, they continue to lose interest and their relationships end up falling apart.

Reason #2 You become more confident

Confidence is a trademark of masculinity. Men who are confident and bold tend to attract more women in their lives. Confidence is a lifestyle, not a trait, and so it doesn't just want to apply confidence in one sector of your life, but your entire existence. Whether it is your business, talking to girls, or in an argument...

Stand firmly for what is right, your beliefs, values, interests, dreams, and aspirations. Also bear in mind that we live in a constantly changing society. And so don't be afraid to tune your beliefs, to serve a common interest.

Most men mistake confidence for arrogance. The moment people perceive you as arrogant, they'll immediately flee away from you, and it makes you less productive in the things you do. And so you don't wanna be arrogant and called a douchebag by everyone. One of the best combinations in life is confidence + humility.  

Reason #3 Your conversations become less awkward

If you find yourself in a social setting and always end up with a blank mind during conversations, then it's probably because you don't know what to say to keep the conversation going, or you're afraid to say what you have in mind because you're scared of rejection. 
Generally, when you meet a woman for the first time or go out on your first date together, they generally do not contribute much to the conversation, especially very attractive women. 

If you catch a blank mind, the aura becomes boring and the date becomes awkward. Trust me when I say women have a strong sense just for detecting awkwardness. And boom the whole date becomes a failure before your eyes.

As soon as she lives, you'll never see her again or hear from her ever. My prayer is for awkward moments like these never to happen to you. 

Lucky for you, you've got my man sean cooper who's willing to help you escape from awkwardness and burst the bubble of shyness still holding your social and dating life back. He's helped over 3000+ people and still helping more. I've personally read his articles and watched lots of his videos. I'll drop a link at the end of the post, for those who want to gain access to his resources and make good use of it.

Reason #4 You appear less needy and desperate In Your Conversations

Most guys who are timid don't really have a lot of friends. And so when they talk to someone new (maybe a potential partner), they over try to impress them but end up being friend-zoned or appearing too needy. It's a common mistake shy guys do. They think that if they give someone special treatment or attention, he/she will reciprocate the feeling or treatment.

But life doesn't work that way, and they eventually end up appearing thirsty and desperate, which turns off women in their lives.- check out our previous post on 10 reasons why nice guys never get relationships right (and what to do about it)

That's it, guys, I hope you found it useful. Am sure there many more reasons out there why you need to overcome the fear of rejection in your life. Just to keep it short and fun, I really needed to emphasize these 4 main reasons which I think are important to transform your dating life. 

Always keep a positive mind, because we all found our selves in these positions at some point in our lives, until the day we found the balls to break out of our comfort zone and conquer the world. Personally, I was a very reserved individual, and each I tried to talk to a stranger for the first time, I'll either stammer or speak extremely fast. 
You can hit me an email about any problem you might be facing in your social life and together would definitely find a solution. Don't forget to share this post with your friends and family, and if you'd like to get access to sean coopers free resources follow the link here!


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