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Friday, January 31, 2020

9 Signs You're A Mistress In Your Relationship

9 Signs You're A Mistress In Your Relationship

Just because you don't know you're a side chick or a mistress, doesn't mean you ain't. We spend almost half of our lives searching for the perfect relationship, along the journey we stumble several times and sometimes we don't even realize we were nothing but a backup or a spare tire.

When it comes to keeping secrets and playing along, men are kings. He shows you an ocean of love, but only shows you the tip of the iceberg when it comes to his personal life.
Initially, you got excited about the relationship, but as time passed you get the feeling something isn't right. When you try to take the relationship to the next level, he makes you look clingy and makes promises he never sees through.

If you see these 9 red flags in your relationship, then you're nothing but a side chick. They are;

1. He doesn't pick your calls after a certain time
2. How does he save your name on his phone
3. You never get to meet his family and friends
4. He always wants to meet at your place
5. He won't cuddle with you in public
6. He never let's go of his phone in your presence
7. He hardly spends the night
8. He makes promises without seeing them through
9. He doesn't post with you on social media


Without further ado, let's look at each red flag detailly


#1. He doesn't pick up your calls after a certain time

When he gets back home after work, he doesn't pick up your calls because he doesn't want his wife to listen to the conversation or get suspicious. And if he decides to contact you, he'll text you rather than calling.


#2. How does he save your name on his phone?

Try observing how he saved your name on his phone. If he saves your number with a romantic name (love, bae, wifey...) then there are high chances you ain't a side chick or mistress. 
But if he uses deceiving name (plumber, mechanic, colleague...) then you're a side chick


#3. You never get to meet his family and friends

He doesn't introduce you to his family and friends, because you are not a priority to him. He wants the relationship to remain secret. Even when you try to introduce him to your family and friends, he always shies away.


#4. He always wants to meet at your place

He never invites you over to his place because he doesn't want you to meet his wife and rather prefers to meet at your place or a hotel every time because it's convenient for him.


#5. He won't cuddle with you in public

Whenever he's with you in public, he always keeps a distance from you, because someone he knows might recognize him and relay information to his wife/family.


#6. He never let's go of his phone in your presence

He doesn't allow you to touch his phone, he always deletes his inbox, he sets his phone on silence/vibration around you and would never tell you his password.


#7. He doesn't spend the night

If he's leaving every time in the middle of the night, then it's a solid sign he's leaving you for someone else. He would have to give an extraordinary excuse to his wife the next morning, which might create suspicion and jeopardize his marriage. Weekends don't count because he's most likely lying to his wife he's going out of town for a business trip.


#8. He makes promises without seeing them through

The relationship is not a priority to him, neither are you. He makes lots of promises just to keep your hopes high about the relationship, and keep you in the loop for his selfish interest. But at the end of the day, he always disappoints you with excuses upon excuses.


#9. He doesn't post with you on social media

He never keeps your pictures on his phone, and he's always reluctant to take pictures with you because he fears you might post them, or someone who knows him might see them. He'll give you excuses like "am not into social media" which is bullshit. 
Just google his name, or search him on popular social media platforms and you'll be surprised with the results

You might also want to read: 
15 reasons why men won't commit in a relationship

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